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Helping and doing chores thoroughly without being asked is a huge, huge help. Give her space so she can relax and not worry about everything piling up and turning into a double workload when she gets back. It changed my life and I actually like my man and kids again. Asking for help is not a sign of weakness, it takes strength… talk to her. I’m not in that position, but I hear what you are saying. I’m praying for you brother that God would send real and tangible help your way. That’s the right thing to do, ask help.
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It might be a day away, a cleaner, someone to take over dinner duties a few nights a week – whatever she needs to feel a bit more human again. Sounds like she needs you to dick her down bud, just how she likes it, she won’t have the energy to complain afterward if you do it right. Maybe suggest a counselor. Or. She is sick of having to ask you to help etc with kids and household tasks? It could be either.
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Trust me she doesn’t mean to be snappy at you, she probably won’t be like that to the kids so you’re the next best thing to her being able to let off some steam. She’s most likely exhausted and needs to rest. My piece of advice is to keep your mouth shut other than reinforcing boundaries. Take the kids out to give her a break…LOTS! For whatever reason women think we can read minds. Strike up conversation often and listen without offering a solution or fix or how you would do it.
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Or pick some for her if that’s more her style… Surprise her with little notes and cards that tell her how much you love and appreciate her. Don’t ask if she needs help– instead just step in and do it. If you are able to try having a weekly date night where the two of you can leave the kids and reconnect with each other giving you both some much-needed rest. Just listen to her. Don’t try to solve all every sentence or offer advice on how you would do it. Just listen, remind her she is WonderWoman. If you arent already doing, surprise her with breakfast.
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Running 100 mph only helps you if you are going in the right direction. She probably snaps because she thinks your efforts are misplaced and you resent the criticism because you are trying very hard and it’s not helping. Talking about what’s important is important all the time. Yes, acknowledge her! Take her out! But are you co-sharing on all the responsibilities? Do stuff without being asked if you aren’t already doing these things, etc.
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That gave me time to clean up dinner mess and then chill with a book or a phone call to a friend or write a letter to my grandma or browse Target etc. for an hour each day. It was critical to my sanity. As was a pretty strict bedtime for the kiddos. We had together time from 8-10 most evenings. His alone chill time was early mornings like 5 am-6:30 before kids were up, Tuesday night golf league, and a baseball game or whatever with the guys on the weekends.
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I bud you’ll b surprised at what a simple talk can do that way you can work out what it is maybe she is just tired. Remind her that there are people out there who don’t have a house and can’t have kids of their own. She has to nurture herself first and often don’t make it a priority before she can create with you. Hang in there, everything can change for the better real quick, and I applaud you asking for ideas to remedy the situation you are both in.
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And take care of the kids an hour every day so I can read it outside, by myself. We are stressed too. If we complain, we are nagging. Some of us love to work, and while being a mom is my #1 priority, I miss being a person sometimes. It sounds like she has depression. Depression isn’t always feeling sad or low and wanting to commit suicide, depression comes in all different ways, I understand how she is feeling, I used to be fun & happy and then I had PND and I was always irritated and snappy and felt so blah inside.
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Date nights are great but they won’t fix the problem and if she is really wound up it will be an uncomfortable exercise in futility. Get her away from everything, and sit down and be prepared to hear what she says with an open and accepting heart, then DO something. I recommend a day of driving back roads with a picnic basket of food and snacks, little cel interruptions, if she gets emotional or loud neither of you will be embarrassed or humiliated, and nature is soothing.
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If she is up you need to be up too. You can rest when she does so if you find yourself sitting on the couch when she is in the kitchen then that is part of the problem. Give her a long lie in that will do wonders for her and a long soak in the bath. Tell her to kick rocks. I’m a single dad doing it all with three kids and would trade being with them full time (including cleaning) and let a spouse work any day. I’m a full-time student, parent, and employee, and the easiest part is the kids.
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I felt like I was losing my mind. I would suggest seeking help from people you know and respect that has stood the test of time in the married life with kids. Thank you. Be proactive. Identify the things she always has to do and do them first, don’t make her into a manager, that’s just one more job. Flowers and chocolate bro. Plus help out when u can. Then send her to get a manicure and pedicure and a whole day for herself. Watch how things change. Good luck bro.
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So many people in that mood right now. Be gentle. Ask her what she needs or how to help. Maybe she just needs some “me” time. You won’t know unless you ask. She might not realize shes short either. I say take the kids and let her go and do whatever she wants for a day. Give her extra cash to achieve it even. Go to a spa, get her hair done, manicure, fishing, whatever she’s into. Just let her get out of the house alone and take care of everything that has her so stressed.
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Ask her what she needs from you to help her through this funk but if you are truly doing your best to help and she continues to snap at you then sadly. Just calmly tell her she’s overreacting and needs to calm down then grab a beer and put the game on and relax. Pack a bag. Put her and the kids in the car. Take her to her parents. Take her inside. Tell her to stay for a weekend. Go home with the kids.
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As a mother of 3, one of which is just 9 weeks old, it’s very easy to get burned out. Moms are typically the comfort place for their kids so while you may be stepping in and helping where you can, those kids are still begging for mommy’s attention because she typically knows exactly what they need and she’s probably more tired from that than anything else. Believe me, I love my kids but when you have so many you are trying to please you tend to forget about yourself. On top of that, she does have a marriage that she also needs to worry about.
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The Rona is destroying lives. I lost some of my tackle but made it across. Possible fractured left foot, deep cuts and scrapes all over and my body hurt from straining muscles. Does she get time away from the house by herself and (not or) with you? It is very important for her to be able to have her own time. And not just once a month and not for family shopping. I know that’s hard during a pandemic, but even a short hike with 1 friend can help. And she needs an outlet.
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Or you pack of the kids, take them somewhere for a few hours so she can be alone and collect her thoughts, and enjoy some solitude. And do this at least once a week. Date her again. Get a sitter for the kids and go out. If you can’t afford a sitter, most, if not all churches have kids programs during the week and Sunday mornings that are absolutely free, even if you aren’t a believer or member of their church, you can still drop them off so you two can have some alone time.
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Turn off the cell, and chill. Single mum with 4 kids so I honestly, really get it. Help her as much as you possibly can when you can. Don’t ask her, just do it. Run her a bath, pour her a glass of wine. Send her off for a few hours for some me-time or give her a day off. I have an amazing husband but at times he gets wrapped up in work and stress and leaves a lot on me to do with the kids and household. When this happens I have to have really hard conversations with him because in his mind he’s doing everything he can to help but he’s not realizing it’s not enough.
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I’m the same way right now and I am fully aware of it…I am working FT from home, managing the kids and the dogs, the house, trying to move into our new house, etc. while my husband gets to leave every day and go to work. His job is physically demanding and I know he’s tired when he gets home but so am I…and some days that just isn’t a good combo. Talk to her. Love on her. Criticizing you and snapping at you is getting you down and she needs to be aware of this and understand how it’s making you feel.
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If based on experience, what is it? If not from experience, but from something else, what is it? Exactly. Some people are too dug deep into roots of taking over poppy fields and killing civilians and children, as dogs. At that point join the reserves or the national guard, allot less wear and tear as you approach your 30’s plus you will be home allotted more. When I served with the 173rd ai was home for maybe 4 months out of the year.
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One thing about joining late is you’re more mature. You won’t do all the stupid things 18-year-olds do so you tend to move up faster. I wouldn’t change my decision if I could go back. The only concern he has is for his and his friend’s bank accounts and power they can get hold of. No woman should be told what she can and can’t do with her own body, if she wants to abort a fetus, she can without having to explain her self to anyone.
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It might be a day away, a cleaner, someone to take over dinner duties a few nights a week – whatever she needs to feel a bit more human again. Sounds like she needs you to dick her down bud, just how she likes it, she won’t have the energy to complain afterward if you do it right. Maybe suggest a counselor. Or. She is sick of having to ask you to help etc with kids and household tasks? It could be either.
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Trust me she doesn’t mean to be snappy at you, she probably won’t be like that to the kids so you’re the next best thing to her being able to let off some steam. She’s most likely exhausted and needs to rest. My piece of advice is to keep your mouth shut other than reinforcing boundaries. Take the kids out to give her a break…LOTS! For whatever reason women think we can read minds. Strike up conversation often and listen without offering a solution or fix or how you would do it.
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Or pick some for her if that’s more her style… Surprise her with little notes and cards that tell her how much you love and appreciate her. Don’t ask if she needs help– instead just step in and do it. If you are able to try having a weekly date night where the two of you can leave the kids and reconnect with each other giving you both some much-needed rest. Just listen to her. Don’t try to solve all every sentence or offer advice on how you would do it. Just listen, remind her she is WonderWoman. If you arent already doing, surprise her with breakfast.
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Running 100 mph only helps you if you are going in the right direction. She probably snaps because she thinks your efforts are misplaced and you resent the criticism because you are trying very hard and it’s not helping. Talking about what’s important is important all the time. Yes, acknowledge her! Take her out! But are you co-sharing on all the responsibilities? Do stuff without being asked if you aren’t already doing these things, etc.
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That gave me time to clean up dinner mess and then chill with a book or a phone call to a friend or write a letter to my grandma or browse Target etc. for an hour each day. It was critical to my sanity. As was a pretty strict bedtime for the kiddos. We had together time from 8-10 most evenings. His alone chill time was early mornings like 5 am-6:30 before kids were up, Tuesday night golf league, and a baseball game or whatever with the guys on the weekends.
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I bud you’ll b surprised at what a simple talk can do that way you can work out what it is maybe she is just tired. Remind her that there are people out there who don’t have a house and can’t have kids of their own. She has to nurture herself first and often don’t make it a priority before she can create with you. Hang in there, everything can change for the better real quick, and I applaud you asking for ideas to remedy the situation you are both in.
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And take care of the kids an hour every day so I can read it outside, by myself. We are stressed too. If we complain, we are nagging. Some of us love to work, and while being a mom is my #1 priority, I miss being a person sometimes. It sounds like she has depression. Depression isn’t always feeling sad or low and wanting to commit suicide, depression comes in all different ways, I understand how she is feeling, I used to be fun & happy and then I had PND and I was always irritated and snappy and felt so blah inside.
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Date nights are great but they won’t fix the problem and if she is really wound up it will be an uncomfortable exercise in futility. Get her away from everything, and sit down and be prepared to hear what she says with an open and accepting heart, then DO something. I recommend a day of driving back roads with a picnic basket of food and snacks, little cel interruptions, if she gets emotional or loud neither of you will be embarrassed or humiliated, and nature is soothing.
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If she is up you need to be up too. You can rest when she does so if you find yourself sitting on the couch when she is in the kitchen then that is part of the problem. Give her a long lie in that will do wonders for her and a long soak in the bath. Tell her to kick rocks. I’m a single dad doing it all with three kids and would trade being with them full time (including cleaning) and let a spouse work any day. I’m a full-time student, parent, and employee, and the easiest part is the kids.
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I felt like I was losing my mind. I would suggest seeking help from people you know and respect that has stood the test of time in the married life with kids. Thank you. Be proactive. Identify the things she always has to do and do them first, don’t make her into a manager, that’s just one more job. Flowers and chocolate bro. Plus help out when u can. Then send her to get a manicure and pedicure and a whole day for herself. Watch how things change. Good luck bro.
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So many people in that mood right now. Be gentle. Ask her what she needs or how to help. Maybe she just needs some “me” time. You won’t know unless you ask. She might not realize shes short either. I say take the kids and let her go and do whatever she wants for a day. Give her extra cash to achieve it even. Go to a spa, get her hair done, manicure, fishing, whatever she’s into. Just let her get out of the house alone and take care of everything that has her so stressed.
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Ask her what she needs from you to help her through this funk but if you are truly doing your best to help and she continues to snap at you then sadly. Just calmly tell her she’s overreacting and needs to calm down then grab a beer and put the game on and relax. Pack a bag. Put her and the kids in the car. Take her to her parents. Take her inside. Tell her to stay for a weekend. Go home with the kids.
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As a mother of 3, one of which is just 9 weeks old, it’s very easy to get burned out. Moms are typically the comfort place for their kids so while you may be stepping in and helping where you can, those kids are still begging for mommy’s attention because she typically knows exactly what they need and she’s probably more tired from that than anything else. Believe me, I love my kids but when you have so many you are trying to please you tend to forget about yourself. On top of that, she does have a marriage that she also needs to worry about.
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The Rona is destroying lives. I lost some of my tackle but made it across. Possible fractured left foot, deep cuts and scrapes all over and my body hurt from straining muscles. Does she get time away from the house by herself and (not or) with you? It is very important for her to be able to have her own time. And not just once a month and not for family shopping. I know that’s hard during a pandemic, but even a short hike with 1 friend can help. And she needs an outlet.
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Or you pack of the kids, take them somewhere for a few hours so she can be alone and collect her thoughts, and enjoy some solitude. And do this at least once a week. Date her again. Get a sitter for the kids and go out. If you can’t afford a sitter, most, if not all churches have kids programs during the week and Sunday mornings that are absolutely free, even if you aren’t a believer or member of their church, you can still drop them off so you two can have some alone time.
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Turn off the cell, and chill. Single mum with 4 kids so I honestly, really get it. Help her as much as you possibly can when you can. Don’t ask her, just do it. Run her a bath, pour her a glass of wine. Send her off for a few hours for some me-time or give her a day off. I have an amazing husband but at times he gets wrapped up in work and stress and leaves a lot on me to do with the kids and household. When this happens I have to have really hard conversations with him because in his mind he’s doing everything he can to help but he’s not realizing it’s not enough.
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I’m the same way right now and I am fully aware of it…I am working FT from home, managing the kids and the dogs, the house, trying to move into our new house, etc. while my husband gets to leave every day and go to work. His job is physically demanding and I know he’s tired when he gets home but so am I…and some days that just isn’t a good combo. Talk to her. Love on her. Criticizing you and snapping at you is getting you down and she needs to be aware of this and understand how it’s making you feel.
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If based on experience, what is it? If not from experience, but from something else, what is it? Exactly. Some people are too dug deep into roots of taking over poppy fields and killing civilians and children, as dogs. At that point join the reserves or the national guard, allot less wear and tear as you approach your 30’s plus you will be home allotted more. When I served with the 173rd ai was home for maybe 4 months out of the year.
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One thing about joining late is you’re more mature. You won’t do all the stupid things 18-year-olds do so you tend to move up faster. I wouldn’t change my decision if I could go back. The only concern he has is for his and his friend’s bank accounts and power they can get hold of. No woman should be told what she can and can’t do with her own body, if she wants to abort a fetus, she can without having to explain her self to anyone.
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